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Oct 25, 2021Liked by The Coffy Salon

This post is so eerie. I was just getting ready to explain to some women I know exactly this although with a few different examples etc. Men have obviously been doing something right even if it's just right for them. Great post.

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Exactly! And we must no find perfect men, because there are none. We just need to find out what allowed these men to succeed and use that in our personal lives. For example, The charisma that Trump used, is the same charisma that Obama used. We need to harness that charisma to help ourselves

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Oct 25, 2021Liked by The Coffy Salon

I definitely agree. I've found that a lot of women are too focused on being perfect. Part of this might just be politics, though, because a lot of the women I know are more left-leaning, and the left tends to go down a far more strict purity spiral than the right, which is dominated by male opinions. Either way, the only way forward is to say what you want to say and not care about the naysayers.

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Yup. I wish that you I hope to eventually write about how the main difference between the right and the left is that the left focuses on morals will the right looks at incentives. The right knows that people will only work in favor of what benefits them. The left expects people to do better just for the sake of it.

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