You make many salient points. I don’t have strong feelings about Hakimi & Hiba’s situation, mostly cuz Idk that much about them. But you are right in saying that the man you marry isn’t the man you divorce. Also that we live in a patriarchy without men who are true patriarchs. The comments from men about Hakimi’s alleged situation are absolutely disgusting. I’ve come to the conclusion that most men don’t actually like women. Sure men feel entitled to women, to our bodies, our reproductive functions, our emotional & physical labor but they don’t truly like us. It’s why I encourage the women I know to be capable of making their own way, even while in a relationship. You just never know what sort of fuckery a man will pull
You make many salient points. I don’t have strong feelings about Hakimi & Hiba’s situation, mostly cuz Idk that much about them. But you are right in saying that the man you marry isn’t the man you divorce. Also that we live in a patriarchy without men who are true patriarchs. The comments from men about Hakimi’s alleged situation are absolutely disgusting. I’ve come to the conclusion that most men don’t actually like women. Sure men feel entitled to women, to our bodies, our reproductive functions, our emotional & physical labor but they don’t truly like us. It’s why I encourage the women I know to be capable of making their own way, even while in a relationship. You just never know what sort of fuckery a man will pull