Either have a daughter or an abortion.
Because if you ever become a single mother to a boy, he will hate you and society will blame you for any of his poor choices.
I have come to the conclusion that men will come up with an imaginary ethos of an absent stoic father figure to deal with their paternal abandonment.
“Why did my dad leave me?” Because as a man, you should not show too much emotion to your kids. That is not masculine. That is why he had to abandon us.
As a woman with a very active father, I can tell you it is absolute BS. Fathers abandon their kids because they do not GIVE A FUCK. Then their poor single mothers are straddled with raising these men who would grow up, and degrade single mothers.
If you are a wise woman, for your first child: HAVE A DAUGHTER. Make sure to do sex-selective IVF and have a female child. If you cannot afford to do that and end up pregnant with a son, you have this option:
ABORTION
Every woman who chooses to have a child with a man should prepare for a scenario where they are left a single mother. Do not apply wishful thinking in a lifelong commitment such as having children.